Seriously - does it really matter? Yes!

Much has been made about the importance of first impressions. People's first encounter with you tends to influence the way they think of you from that point forward. So, what are some of the things you can do to guarantee that you will make a positive impression? How can you win the immediate approval of future friends, lovers, and employers simply by showing up? Well, there are many ways by which you can do this. One of the most effective, however, is by dressing well.  

Many people fail to recognize, or at least they fail to acknowledge, the correlation between their clothes and how they are perceived. For better or for worse, people make judgments about who you are, what you do, and the kind of life you lead within seconds of meeting you. Much of the information gathered in this evaluation process comes from your manner of dress. Once you acknowledge the fact that people are observing your visual appearance when they meet you, you will be able to do something about it. There are several steps you can take to ensure that your clothes will leave people wanting more of you.

What does it mean to dress well, and how can you do it?

First, you should take pride in the way you look regardless of who is around. It is worth noting that taking pride in your appearance is different than being proud. Dress in a way that encourages you to look at yourself in the mirror. This is not vanity. Rather, it is an essential step towards giving you the confidence that will carry over to your first meetings with people. Take the time and spend the money (within reason) to give yourself the means to look good. As a result, you will be more confident and comfortable in your clothes, not to mention your own skin.

Make sure that you dress appropriately and stylishly when meeting someone for the first time. Whether it is a first date or a job interview, figure out what is appropriate to wear, and then wear it. If you are about to meet someone in a setting with which you are not familiar, ask people for advice. Dressing well does not necessarily mean dressing fancy. Instead, think of it as being neat, well-groomed, and approachable. This can apply to both formal and casual settings. Regardless of the setting, though, dress appropriately. Doing so speaks volumes about your level of interest in whomever you are meeting for the first time. 

A good first impression is the key that unlocks the door to you! 

People respond more positively to those they view as attractive. Do not interpret this as a demand for stunning good looks and a model-esque figure. Consider it inspiration for caring how you present yourself to the people you meet for the first time. Your manner of dress sends a message about you. Aim to make a first impression with your style of dress that encourages people to want to know more of you.

Contributed by Eunice Tan, PA Trainer and Founder Principal Consultant of Image Flair.